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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have an out of control population growth and also kids in need of adoption. It is also okay to be childless because of the freedom that provides![/quote]

This comment is gross and totally inappropriate.[/quote]

There aren't that many kids that are [b]adoptable[/b].  It took us a small fortune and 6 years to adopt.  OP's heartache is real.  Why don't you adopt?[/quote]

What do you mean “adoptable”? Do you mean that school-aged children who may have special needs don’t deserve a loving home?

You’re not entitled to a baby. I’m sorry you are unable to conceive.[/quote]

Are you really that inconsiderate? Just because every kid deserves a loving home doesn't mean every home is able to take on that kid. Most infertile couples looking to adopt are going to be first time parents. I for one can not imagine going from childless to adopting an older child, let alone one with special needs. Now that I have kids of my own, I can imagine adopting an older child but I was not there before.

And just because someone isn't entitled to a baby doesn't mean they are not entitled to long for one and grieve for chances of one. The biological urge to have an offspring is very real and very strong. So get over yourself. [/quote]

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