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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I want to answer this question even though it may not be from the side you are asking for. Why did I stay after infidelity?

I stayed because I care about my kids, because my anger / hurt needed to be taken care of (within or without a marriage), because my spouse loved me regardless.

I'm not sure it was fully the right decision. But at the same time I don't fully think it was the wrong decision, either. My family is intact, my children older, and if we were to divorce now, they'd be past the middle/high school high drama time.

My answers really are the same as those above, I think. But it was me who was unfaithful.

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The wrong decision was your infidelity in the first place.  And, no as a cheater you can’t speak to why somebody betrayed stayed.

From your description here, I wouldn’t stay with you.  Not once did you mention what you did was wrong or you stayed because you truly love your spouse and the infidelity was a complete mistake and biggest regret.  It’s not clear either what actions you took to help your spouse.

You sound like you stayed because after cheating you wouldn’t be able to support yourself.[/quote]

OP didn't specify if they wanted only the betrayed to asnwer.
You don't have to stay with me, because we aren't together. 
And my remorse or lack there of is not relevant here.
Actions I took to help my spouse are also irrelevant here.
I am more than capable of supporting myself and my children.[/quote]

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