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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’re not over-reacting.  You described an exact evening I had with my now ex husband several years ago.  The denying he was drunk part was the worst.  It was awful and [b]not an isolated incident[/b].  And it is abusive.

Good luck to you.[/quote]

the difference is that OP said that this IS an isolated incident. and that she thinks it was a bad interaction with his meds ... but is still looking to divorce over it and called it "emotional abuse".  I think this is where readers are getting confused by her story.

isolated indecent with remorse  ---> forgive DH as OP is over-reacting

NOT an isolated incident but OP is hiding information --> DH probably has some substance abuse problems and would explain why the OP jumped to divorce ... except she also adamantly says he didn't drink much, this was an isolated incident and he is a father who does more than 50% of the work ... so we are confused why you would jump to divorce.
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PP again, and looks like there was trickle down information happening.  From the true OP, it implied it was an isolated incident bc she said it was out of character short of a few incidences she referenced from 15 years ago...

later she supplemented that it isn't isolated, but that doing it IN FRONT OF THE KIDS was the new behavior.
100% don't think you are over-reacting OP, but it does sound like your DH has a substance abuse problem and you may have been in denial about it.
I am sorry this happened to you, but I hope it gave you the clarity to see that this is a problem.[/quote]

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