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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are the grandkids? I know when our kids were tiny (and very close together in age, plus two full time jobs) we were incredibly worn out and not as attentive to extended family as usual (in terms of asking about their lives etc). We were just trying to keep our heads above water. However, we certainly weren’t critical etc.

Will they let you babysit? That could be a win-win.

I don’t know what to say about the rudeness/criticism- is this new or have they always been this way?! Can you provide a specific example of the things said?

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A specific example would be we are noisy when we stir our coffee, my husband still works (high functioning) and our son calls him  a moron.  I don’t know how to hold a baby.  The grandkids are still young. They are ages one, two, four and seven. The last time we visited one of them for their child’s first birthday, they gave us chores to do at their house.  Pressure wash the outside, put together things. When they came home, they complained about the work.

One of our kids went to school on a full scholarship. He is hyper independent, and we are extremely proud of him and tell him all the time. Now he throws it back in our face. Really didn’t see this coming.

Honestly, we just want to see our grandkids

I think they were definitely spoiled, but I refuse to blame myself for their behavior.
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I mean, you allow them to speak to you that way. And I doubt that began as adults. So, feel not to blame yourself. But, you do bear some of the blame, whether you acknowledge that or not.

Your options at this point is to speak with them about it or not. So . . . that's it. [/quote]

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