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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I was you. Exactly. Almost exact situation, response, and timeline. Then at 5 months post DDay, dday 2 came in the form of him secretly confiding in a female coworker about what we were going through which was teetering on an emotional affair. Then at 7 months post dday, he started on depression meds, was very clearly instructed by the doctor to not drink on them at least for the first 6 weeks. A week after he started them, he was at a family party with our young daughter, had 2 drinks, and drove home. I'm filing. I was with him for 20+ years and don't even recognize the person in front of me. It's terrifying.[/quote]

I think you are way over reacting.[/quote]

Ok- maybe you're fine with someone taking a med they're instructed not to drink on, trying to drink on it for the first time while driving your kid, but I'm certainly not. I specifically asked him if he would be drinking at this party and he said no. I asked him before they came home- have you drank? No. An hour later pics on social media with him holding a whiskey. It's the intentional lying. [/quote]

It bad but to jump to divorce is crazy.[/quote]

Having sex with someone else, an additional emotional affair with a coworker, lying, hiding drinking, drinking and driving our kid on meds he's not supposed to be drinking on...not really sure what offenses are even left to commit besides physical abuse [/quote]

You are way exaggerating all of these. He had a one night stand. He didn’t really have an emotional affair. He had a couple beers on medication that was new, okay, stupid but people do stupid things sometimes. Most men can drive fine after two beers (in however many hours, presumably he didn’t do keg stands) thought obviously not recommended. You sound like you’re very angry about the first offense and it’s coloring everything else in extremes.[/quote]

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