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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why should she?  She is already bearing the burden of traveling.

It's your house.  You need to clean, or pay someone to do so.[/quote]

NP. If she's a guest - act like a guest then. I'd be grossed out if a guest left their hair on the bathroom floor. They'd clean up after themselves. If you're a guest in an airbnb you at least sweep sometimes and wash dishes. I don't think OP wants a housekeeper and I think it's right to look at it regarding hygiene/cleanliness in terms of ever living together. So she drives there. She also gets a place to stay, a bf and presumably they go out and do bf/gf things. It's not a lot to ask to clean as if you're living with someone while you're there in a relationship. Stop piling on OP.[/quote]

I don't think I've ever dated someone over 25 who didn't have a housekeeper, so that alone would be a big red flag for me personally.  For me it's dumb to introduce this as an issue in a relationship since it can be so easily solved by paying for weekly cleaning.  If OP doesn't solve it, he's either too poor (pass) or he's got some backward idea about the role of women in a relationship (hard pass).  [/quote]

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