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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like your husband was in a depressive rut and he is doing the work with a therapist to figure out how to be healthy and happy, and this is a good thing! There are so many men who are unable to figure out how to help themselves. Is he distancing himself from you because your not supporting these changes he's making? Can you guys maybe explore hobbies to do together? I know a lot of people look down on video gaming, but it really can be a healthy escape from stresses. Look into co-op games that you can play as a family or just the two of you. There are a lot of fun multi-player Nintendo Switch games. It's also great that your husband is getting into physical shape, it will help him feel better. So many people develop health problems in their 40s because that is when unhealthy habits catch up with you. Can you go jogging together or biking as a family? Your child is 14 and getting to that age where he/she probably doesn't need you as much.

My husband and I haven't been having that much sex lately, but we are best friends and are always looking for hobbies and activities to do together. I mean, if you are done with him then just divorce him, but it sounds like you have a wonderful life together. Have you tried talking to him and telling him that you miss spending time together? What you wrote in you original post doesn't really sound like a midlife crisis or an affair, it more sounds like he was depressed and is trying to do the work to get himself to a better place mentally.       [/quote]

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