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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't believes so many of you don't get it. I think OP was just hoping some kind kid or kids would show up. She wasn't trying to have some huge party. Obviously if her child had 2-3 close friends she would have just done something with them.[/quote]

No, you are the one that doesn’t seem to get it. Kids don’t just show up at this age unless they are friends or know friends are coming, as they are also awkward, socially self conscious, and don’t want to be the only one around people they don’t know.

My daughter invited her entire block class in 6th grade to a Halloween party the Saturday before Halloween and only one kid showed who wasn’t a friend - luckily it wasn’t awkward bc he wasn’t the only one. But I never would have let her do that if I wasn’t positive that at least a couple friends would be there (it was 10-12 kids I think)

Mom/dad needed to ensure at least a couple friends before doing an all group invite [/quote]

OP does not need a lecture about how unpopular her child is right now or how her strategy did not work. She knows this. Inviting all those people was a desperate attempt. OP I do think a better strategy next time would be to confirm individually with a few friends or classmates.

To the PP who said kids don't randomly just show up it sounds like you are raising an unkind child. My child is 12 and was invited to several parties thrown by people they were not particularly close with. They saw it as an opportunity to get to know the other child better and they were glad they went as they were one of only a handful who attended. [/quote]

Most kids would not show up. You can say everyone is raising unkind children but that doesn’t change the reality. Most teenagers are figuring out who they are and yes tend to be unkind.[/quote]

+1,000. You can be sanctimonious all you like, PP. The truth is that MOST kids that age won’t go if it’s not a good friend.[/quote]

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