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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t say this all to be smug. Even though it worked out for me, and I have a great husband, there’s no doubt it came at a cost, and I do feel a little sad my 20s didn’t include more adventure and fun. [/quote] I hope the man you worked so hard to land never leaves you for someone else. You sacrificed so much.[/quote] Do you? Or do you hope I fail to punish me?[/quote] DP, but all of your posts make it seem like you are super defensive and spoiling for a fight, like you're convinced everyone is jealous of you. But... we're not. I enjoyed my 20s, dated for fun, met my DH by total accident when I was 28, got married, have a great life. I also think that it benefitted me to just not care that much about marriage in my 20s. It gave me space to figure out what I wanted in general out of life (not just out of a husband) which led to me making choices to make those things happen regardless of whether I got married, which means that when I met my DH, I was already on a path an trajectory I was excited about and it helped me know he was at the right guy for me because he was ready to get on that same path. I'm glad your approach worked out too, but I think it's weird that you seem to think we're all trying to punish you for "winning" here.[/quote]
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