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[quote=Anonymous]OP, what was your highest annual compensation before becoming a SAHM?  What kind of income would you bring in if you go back to work?  That might influence whether you’d feel any differently if you return to the workforce.

My spouse and I are both high earners.  I’ve supported my parents in many ways, sometimes hundreds of thousands in a year.  This was for medical s as bd caregiver expenses, and some time sensitive matters easier for us to just pay for.  I would never, ever, think to buy luxury goods for my parents.  Most important, we have kids, and my parents (now just my dad) would be appalled if we spent money on luxury-level goods rather than directing it toward future generations.  Really, why would supporting your parents include a luxury car then they are unable to provide even the basics like housing for themselves.  Honestly, it sounds a bit more that you want to play the role of the luxury benefactor for your parents than a family member looking out for their needs.  Have your parents asked for a more expensive car, or indicated they want one?  Are you thinking through that many of their possible future expenses will be much higher, and much more practically useful?  [/quote]

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