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[quote=Anonymous]OP the thing to realize is that even if you pursued him he should not have reciprocated, as he was a) married b) your superior c) significantly older and more advantaged, enough to know that you and he would have disparate consequences from this. For him, there is little risk of his wife leaving him. For you, if your husband finds out you a) did this and b) have been lying to him this entire time, you and your marriage are toast. As a man he absolutely knew this, and went ahead anyway, without your best interest in mind. You have to realize he knew from day one that he would not be leaving his wife and that this was a dead end for you. You, who were a 23 years younger woman, who as a result went on to marry and have 2 kids with someone she didn’t love. Take home message is, do not prioritize someone who has not prioritized you.[/quote]
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