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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, I think this is an interesting topic.  What are the elements of a miserable marriage, potentially:

(1) lack of emotional connection/ absense of physical intimacy and communication [b]check (me)[/b]
(2) feeling of regret at having married that person + fantasizing about "what ifs" with other people [b]check (me)[/b]
(3) relationship based on "power" /competitioin rather than "love" 
(4) spouse who brings out the negative in you rather than the positive, and vice versa
(5) spouse who doesn't appreciate your work/accomplishments -- or feels threatened by your accomplishments
(6) solitary spouse without life of their own - happiness on their own -- who is dependent on you for their personal happiness or control[b] check (him) MAJOR problem[/b]
(7) feeling trapped in the relationship - whether it be guilt over breaking up family home/fucking up kids by divorcing; or financial inability to leave [b]check (me) guilt/kids[/b]

It takes two to tango, and I realize you can't blame one spouse - it is more a general dynamic of the above that has made my marriage miserable in recent years.
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I just married for the wrong reasons...I married for security, stability, I married the "nice guy" "old faithful".  We have no passion, we never will.  I just don't have that chemistry with him. He makes a great friend, but has never been my lover.  Critical error that I will live with forever.[/quote]

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