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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow. Dh and I always stand by each others decisions. Always. Admittedly we don’t disagree often, but still dh is my partner in life. I have his back first and always. [/quote]

No way. You chose to have this life. Your first responsibility is to your kid, as they are a minor and under your protection. Should they have low self esteem, anxiety, depression - as adults - that almost always is on you and what you failed to provide or protect them from.

I knew a lot of spouses like you - and let me tell you, as adults the kids distance themselves from *both* parents. One for being a jerk, and the other for being silent.[/quote]

What the hell did this poster say that gave you the substantiation to say that she or her husband are jerks? She just said she and her husband stand by each other's decisions and try to be supportive of each other as parents.

You took a gigantic leap there, which speaks to you projecting your own issues onto others.[/quote]

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