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[quote=Anonymous]"Know your place" poster here.

Men aren't off the hook either. I just focused mostly on women because they have a lot of power to control the tone of a relationship, but they don't realize it. The point was not to degrade women, as I think women are Queens. The point was to encourage women to consider their attitudes.

And yes, men and women are different, and need different things. There is no back tracking. I stand by every statement I made.

Women- encourage your husbands.
Men- love your wives.

I do not however stand by statements that I did not make. If you take something, turn your brain off, and run with it- don't try and tell me that it's what I said, when I did not.

But if you want to change to men, there are a lot of lazy boy-men who want their wives to do everything. You want her to bring in income, take care of most of the household duties, take care of any emergencies that pop up, while you sit around on your lazy ass and
watch TV or play video games because you need a break. You think your paycheck exempts you from having to put in any effort into your home life. You are not a man. You are a boy. Grow up.

If your wife stays at home, you still have to help too. Sorry. You get time off from work, so should she. Be a man, not a whiny little boy.

Cheaters, abusers, all that...we don't even need to go there. But some of you men need to step up and be men instead of little boys who need your wife/momma to do everything for you so you can fish, high-five your buddies, and play Wii.

But at the same time, women, you need to allow men some room to be involved. If you are going to criticize everything he does (he doesn't feed the kids right, I don't like how he sweeps, he doesn't clean properly, I pay the bills this way, not that way...) well
then how can you expect him to want to be involved?

You have a problem with HIS DECISIONS and you want to make all of them yourself while at the same time complaining that all he does is work and nothing else.

Change your attitude.

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