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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, have you asked your DD what she would like? Since she's the one who is affected by all of this, and she's 12 (so not a little kid), she should have a say in what goes on here. Maybe she wants you to help her with some statements that will allow her to stand up for herself. Maybe she just wants to vent, and she really doesn't care what her grandmother says. Maybe she wants to laugh about her crazy grandmother with you. Or maybe she wants to see her less often, or only for shorter periods of time (i.e., 12 times a year for 2-3 hours max, rather than 6 times a year for a weekend each time). Good luck![/quote] +1 MILs such as OPs are relying on the old adage "respect your elders" - it no longer applies, especially when they are batsh&t crazy. I wonder if your MIL is jealous of your DD - I know it is the case with my MIL, OP. [/quote]
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