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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband has ADHD. He's always had a vision for his work and his money, and a firm idea when he met me that he wanted to marry me and have kids. But implementing family life has been entirely driven by me. Work and finances are already more than he can handle. If I hadn't set a date for the wedding and trying to conceive, we might still be be engaged and childless, 20 years later :-)[/quote]

ADHD isn’t an excuse. I have ADHD too, and I still manage to handle everything because I treat it. Just like putting on glasses if you have poor vision. [/quote]
As someone with ADHD who took 5 years to get diagnosed and 1 year to make an appointment with someone who could actually help me treat it, you are kind of minimizing how difficult it really can be to complete tasks like this. [b]I play wack-a-mole with urgent things in my life so long term life goals seem ridiculous to me most of the time.[/b] [/quote]

Sorry, not to derail…this is an honest question: is this not how everyone feels?? [/quote]

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