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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What’s YOUR vision? Are you not equal partners? Or only equal when convenient?[/quote]
Op here.

[b]My vision was to have a baby after we got married at 30. So a baby at 31 or 32. Buying a house in the suburbs. Making at least 300k together.[/b]

He never showed interest in TTC until I was 34 and since then we keep having recurrent losses.

We both made only 120k combined until recently, so we have not been able to save much to do much. [/quote]

Did you discuss this with him before you got married? Did he agree with this vision?[/quote]
This is what I want to know.  Did OP ever tell him that this was what she wanted?  What did he say?  How did he react?  What did he say about having kids when you talked to him about it between 30 and 34?  Did you think that you needed a certain income to have kids?  Did he?

Lots of women have babies at 34; it's not really that old, so if OP is having issues at 34, she likely would have had them at 32.[/quote]

If you want to have more than one baby, and to space them out optimally, then you should start [i]long [/i]before 34. [/quote]

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