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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] OP here. DD came back and reported that at lunch the teachers stood up and explained to the grade that the silent lunch was occurring because there were kids getting up and just generally being loud and obnoxious yesterday. The lunchbox episode wasn't mentioned to the grade and my daughter never got questioned or sent to the principal's office. I haven't received an email or phone call, so I am not going to discipline her at home. I think that my kid was told not to play the game again right before they announced the silent lunch, so my kid thought it was her fault when in reality it was a small event at the end of a long lunch period of behaviors. She did not want to go to school today. She's never refused to go to school before, but she was very worried she was going to get in trouble or dress-coded again. [/quote] She worried about getting in trouble because she’s a troublemaker. You are enabling her behavior. How do you know DD didn’t eat her ice cream and then steal the friend’s? How do you know the other girls weren’t passing around the lunchbox and taking what they wanted? You assume the adults misinterpreted what happened because the victim didn’t complain? Any kid knows that you rat out your friend, you are no longer welcome in the group. To get the real story, you need to talk to the adults involved and stop taking your DD’s word as fact. [/quote]
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