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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m coming in with a different perspective. Because my DH could easily have written your post. When I complain about something, it gets magnified 10x in DHs mind, and when I compliment something or show appreciation, he barely notices. It starts a cycle where I feel like I have to SHOUT my complaints just to feel heard, and I stop complimenting because the compliments don’t register. We’ve had a lot of therapy and things are improving. DH has learned that if I complain about XYZ, I’m not rejecting who he is as a person. And I’ve learned to be direct and clear about my complaints and then move on. I recommend a book called “This is how your marriage ends”. You can break this cycle and get back to where you were OP. It just takes some work. [/quote] This sounds like my wife. Compliments don't register at all. But say anything slightly critical and hoo-boy. [/quote]
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