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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In many parts of Asia, grandparents do the bulk of daytime childcare, so both parents are free to work at demanding jobs. And with loose employment regulations, boy, are those jobs rough.[/quote]

Don’t the grandparents have jobs? If they’re old enough to be fully retired, I would think they’d be too old to be fully Abe to run around with a young child all day in the way a child needs.

Seems cheap and a way to take advantage of the elderly when they should be relaxing after decades of hard work 
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I'm the PP who posted about grandparents doing childcare in Asia. The retirement age in China is between 50 and 60, so it wouldn't be too old to run around with a child, especially if there are 2 grandparents babysitting at the same time. It's also a different culture, so family members there are expected to make huge uncompensated sacrifices for each other, for better or for worse.[/quote]

Chinese person here - this may sound great but I have friends whose parents flew over from China to take care of their baby for months to a year. It may sound great but can also be a headache given the cultural/parenting style differences. I've heard stories of grandparents being super against letting the baby cry, doing any kind of sleep training, putting them on a schedule, etc. It's great that it's free but at least if you have a nanny you can tell them what to do. [/quote]

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