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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have made your whole identity a victim. Some people only know how to be miserable. You are making a choice. [/quote] I hope you never experience anything that would make you realize how dumb this statement is. If you met me, you'd assume I was a relatively happy, highly functional working mom with a good life outlook and a nice family. No one in my life thinks I have a "victim identity". People are so afraid of "victim identity" that they cannot deal with the fact that some harm is deep and lasting and hard, if not impossible to get over, so those of us who are survivors of that kind of harm have to walk around acting "normal" or be labeled a "victim" and treated like garbage all over again.[/quote]
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