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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So why not let him sleep with others, provided he uses protection, and continue the marriage. You said he and you are good in other respects.[/quote]

Yes. That's the deal I have with my DH.  He feels as you do and I'm like your husband. I have no interest in leaving my husband, but also no interest in sleeping with only one person the rest of my life.[/quote]
How did this arrangement get started?  Does he have a pass too?  How did/does he feel about it?  How many times have you slept with someone else?  How do you meet these other people?[/quote]

It got started when I had an intense emotional affair that included lots of sexually heavy messages. DH saw a few and confronted me.  Went to counselling.  After a few months, therapist told him that he had to step it up in all ways: help more with the house, the kids and express more interest in the marriage itself. DH stepped it up a bit for a while, but then slid back into old ways. He frankly felt relief that I no longer pressure him to be more intimate and have sex more than once or twice a week.  He doesn't want a pass; he wants to be left alone.  I have a longtime lover.[/quote]

Oh, how I wish that my DH would agree to something like this - he is just so territorial.[/quote]

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