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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If she’s married, yes, confront.  It will scare the sh@t out of her that you might tell her husband.  You don’t have to be crazy or loony.  You are just some abstract person to them- not someone who is real with kids and a life and emotions.

Then, decide what you want to do.  But, advice is usually for all 4 involved to know (both betrayed spouses) so there are two sets of eyes on the problem if the betrayed spouses choose to reconcile.

It’s par for the course that someone with no empathy or character would blame you.  It’s almost comical in that sense.  You really can see the borderline personality disorder firsthand.  It’s everyone else’s fault.  They will try sympathy first and then lash out in anger when that doesn’t work.

[b]The only proper response by an OW/OM (and spouse):  I’m so sorry.[/b]  But, none have empathy or character to say that.

They will often lie to try to hurt you more. You aren’t going to get any truth out of them.[/quote]

Any other response by an ow/OM shows their poor character and lack of empathy. (In other words, you will never get an apology).[/quote]

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