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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everybody seems to agree that the in laws are obnoxious, useless, won't change, clueless, etc etc.  Has anybody (including OP) considered that maybe the in laws don't like the OP and have had negative or difficult interactions with her that are now preventing them from wanting to spend any time with her?  This can also obviously impact the relationship with the grandchildren.  Might want to reflect on that OP.[/quote]

After coming back and reading all of OP’s responses, I was going to post the same thing. She wasn’t willing to entertain any advice given, and had an excuse/clap back for every point made.  I’m not sure I’d be jumping to go spend lengthy amount of time with her either. [/quote]
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OP your expectations aren’t reasonable. They live a flight away. They made it clear so why would you even expect them to help?
Sounds like you can hire help so I’m not sure why you aren’t and wasting time being made at ILs. 
And, yes, I’ve done two deployments with six kids. [/quote]

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