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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I decided that we want to wait 1-2 months after baby is born (next month) for visitors. His parents are being very pushy about wanting to see the baby very quickly after birth. How do we hold the boundary without creating a rift? In his family it’s very common for everyone to be in the hospital etc. [b] I’m just annoyed at our wishes not being respected[/b].[/quote] "Not respecting wishes" would be barging into your home uninvited and unannounced the first day the baby is home. What your ILs are doing now is expressing their own wishes. You are really in for a hard time of it if you expect everyone around you to not express anything that is not in line with your parenting choices.[/quote]
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