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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again (I was PP) - what I'm asking is - were you ever sexually attracted to your spouse or did you marry someone you weren't really sexually attracted to. If the latter is true, I think years in that situation could make one feel
asexual when it's not necessarily the case.[/quote]

Yes and this has been the bigger mistake of my life.  We dated for 7 years before marrying and if I'm bein perfectly honest, I was never sexually attracted to him.  He was smaller, less experienced and not as adventurous as previous partners.  BUT, he was/is a GOOD MAN who has always treated me well.  He is a good provider, a wonderful father and and awesome friend.

But here we are..10 years later and im wondering how much longer I can continue to do this.  He has "problems" so our sex life is practically non-existent.  We are both early 30's, attractive and fit.  I have cheated on him several times over the years and will probably have to continue if I stay in this marriage.

If only I could press rewind....[/quote]

Wow, you're a terrible person.  Your "good provider, wonderful father and awesome friend" is at risk of cuckoldry and deadly STD's because you have no morals.  I hope he finds out as soon as possible and he can find a woman who respects him.[/quote]

My feelings are hurt...really :-/

I highly doubt that he could find a woman who has been everything I have been to him and be happy in a sexless marriage.  [/quote]

fucking other men, plural, negates anything else you have done for him.  as a wife, your number 1 responsibility is to be faithful.[/quote]

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