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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s not shallow. I applaud you for speaking your mind. Just look at all the miserable people on this board and you’ll be glad you’re not settling for someone that you’re not physically attracted to after the “honeymoon" period ends. [/quote]

Yep.

Do not settle. If you do, you will be back here complaining about how the marriage is dead.

Be confident in what you are looking for.

I have a cousin who is like you. He is married to a real life doll. She is always well put together. Always. He is too: handsome, tall and muscular and does not mess with his workout and diet. They are a great match and are happy. They are nice people who just love to look great all the time.

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so basically… appearances above all else? I wonder if OP is willing to forgo all other qualities to find this “living doll” (and also wonder if he makes the same effort with his appearance.) And is he going to demand she be a “living doll” always, and get upset when she is 2 months post-partum still wearing nursing pajamas to bed?

I know a guy like OP who had similar unreasonable standards about women being “living dolls.” We dated for a while, but I couldn’t take it an broke up. I his case, it went along with a deep vein of “traditional” expectations about women, and serious insecurity on his part. It was sad because he was otherwise a person I really liked and we had a great time together. Oh, forgot to mention, the sex was BAD. If a woman gets the idea her appearance is being criticized in bed, it’s not gonna be fun. [/quote]

No.

You can have appearance and so many other things if these things are important to you.

Consider me  and my DH for example.
If we cut the amount of time we spend web surfing/ warching nonsense in half and spend that on self care, we would be a very good looking couple. But we don't see the point to it. Other people do.

We would not have to sacrifice a any of our time with family and friends to achieve this.

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