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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to just step up and own the fact that you are done with the first guy and want to stop seeing him. That's ok! You don't need to find excuses or explain it away.  It honestly doesn't matter if he agrees.  For any kind of relationship to work, both people need to be into it - if one person is done, it's ok to end it.  Even if the other person doesn't really want to.  Stop worrying about what he wants or thinks, and focus on what YOU want.  You don't have to be an a-hole about it, but you also don't have to twist yourself into knots trying to convince him that it's better this way.  Just end it (with as much kindness as possible) and move on.[/quote]

Thanks, I need to hear this. I tried to set the tone of ending it in a phone call b[b]ut he wants to meet in person.[/b] That is the issue.[/quote]

That's because he wants to manipulate into not ending because he doesn't want to give up the sex. Come on sister. There's nothing wrong with a situationship/FB, but that's what this is and you aren't obligated to continue it.

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Exactly. He is getting sex with practically no effort on his part. Why would he want to give that up? Just call or text him and be done. [/quote]

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