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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: I appreciate the comments that it is okay not to meet in person. I thought I might meet in person in a public place but not at my house because I just feel it has run its course. I started the conversation before on the phone and he seemed surprised and said it seemed like I was throwing a good thing away. I just don’t feel connected after this long due to what to me, is committed but casual and infrequent.[/quote]

Look, it would be pretty crazy to think that after 18 months of NOT meeting out in public for dates, you're now obligated to go on a date in order to break up with him.

You can do that if you want, but you are definitely not required. If his feelings are hurt, his feelings are hurt - people get hurt feelings all the time. You aren't engaged to the guy, or even seriously dating him, and obligated to have a proper send-off. Don't be a jerk - tell him you've enjoyed your time together - but you aren't obligated to spend more time in public together breaking up than you ever did when you were actually hanging out![/quote]

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