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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DD hates me.  She is hostile with me, like yells back at me if I interact with her, unless she is asking me for something, and sometimes she is violent.  I never want to be around her.  She has been this way since age 2, now age 12.  Combative with me from the moment she wakes up, but not with others.   I am at the point today that I would consider sending her to live with an aunt or grandparent if they would take her because she clearly hates me.  Any other moms have this experience?  Any insights?  I tried therapy twice for her, but went nowhere.[/quote]

Sorry OP. I feel your pain.

Yes I experience similar dynamics but to a lesser extent though.

It is probably because they feel safe with us.

The good news is she can regulate her emotions better with people she does not feel safe with. That is a start and some teens can’t even do that .

My DD has personal therapy now and we have family Therapy.

The DBT handbook for teens and parents is helpful.

I would definitely Consider summer with a family Member if they get on and your DD agrees.

Best wishes finding a way that works for you .[/quote]

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