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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op again. So give me an example. If he hits me or kicks me do I give him a time out? (For us time out means going in your room) sometimes he doesn’t care ither times he hangs on the door. Feel like we’ve tried this so many times and the behavior didn’t change. What is something I do in the moment? [/quote] Nanny again - If a child ever hit me, the consequences would be severe and immediate. Complete and total loss of privileges. Some kids respond to charts and stickers and all of that positive stuff. Sounds like yours doesn’t and you need to go to bare bones. If will be rough for a few weeks, but honestly if a child hit me I would remove tv and favourite toys for a week. That is unacceptable. I rarely have to do time outs, because from the beginning, I teach children to respect me. In turn, I also respect children by never raising my voice, using reasoning, and working things out calmly. You can do this, but it’s going to be tough because your child does not respect you. [/quote]
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