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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As the Mom of an Aspie, I have a lot of questions. How long did you date your ASD spouse before you married? How is it possible that you didn’t see the signs while dating? Maybe you did, but chose to ignore? I think it’s impossible for a person to “mask” so much that their spouse wouldn’t know until years after marriage. I don’t think ASD should be blamed for your relationship problems because it’s always been a part of his personality. What changed your perception of his personality? HIS INCAPABILITIES of being an adult Did you think you could fix or change his quirks? FIrST I thought he was passive agreesive and not doing basic stuff. Then I thought he was an A-hole or misogynist, not doing what he agreed to do or have zero common sense. Then his executive functioning deficiencies kicked in with two kids when I could do everything everything. Then with the asd 1 Dx no, I know he will never change. [/quote] This has been asked and answered. Masking, little to no responsibilities other than to himself, simple lives when no kids or SFH, he’s work for used and one assumes that means functional, you’re his hyperfocus, his mom helps marry him off. [/quote]
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