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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know why you're being so hard on yourself. You met this man and you felt a connection. So ask him for coffee to talk about school things, and see if that connection feels stronger. If it does, then explore it.

You met your DH before you had the chance to marry this man. So do some monkey-branching and see if this other man is better. If he is then take him and let your DH and his DW deal with it.

There was a beautiful story in the NYT's Vows section just like this a few years ago. A television journalist and an executive met at their kids' preschool. They tried to deny their instant attraction but their connection overpowered their misplaced defenses, because of course they never would have settled for their spouses if they had met each other first.

So they explained to their spouses that they would have to follow their hearts and move on. They ended up having a lovely wedding ceremony and formed a beautiful, blended family, one enhanced with the experiences each brings into the better new marriage. I'm not sure what happened to the exes, but I'm sure they understand everyone is in a better place and with whom they're supposed to be. They should be honored for the child care they provide so the new couple can spend time alone to nurture their love.[/quote]

If this isn’t a troll, this is the most delusional, narcissistic, and harmful advice I’ve read in a very long time.

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Agree, our spouses are not commodities that we transact on when a better product comes along.

The major mistake here is to explore the attraction. No, that is called temptation. When tempted we need to plug into our integrity and values. This is utter bs advice and a recipe for disaster, especially if there are kids involved. [/quote]

Lol. That PP was clearly being sarcastic. [/quote]

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