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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She’s just not that into you, sunshine.  In fact she likely finds you annoying and she is really being very polite by not pointing that out.  Why are you trying so hard to befriend her? Is she wealthy? Connected? [/quote]

This is OP. No, not wealthy and not 'connected'. It appears she has a lot of local friends. She's a lot more lively and chatty with our mutual friends than with us. Maybe this is because the majority of mutual friends are in her hobby groups (she's in 3 or 4) and we're not.
We haven't done anything wrong.[/quote]

You say she is in 3 or 4 hobby groups or community groups. She has probably made enough friends with shared interests, and she sees you as a casual acquaintance, nothing more.

Do you have anything in common with her? Do you share any hobbies?
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You don't have to have anything in common to have a friendly conversation: "Oh, cycling, nice -- the group that meets up near me seems really tight. How did you get into it?"[/quote]

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