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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First of all OP, this is extremely rude. There are so many students who have worked so hard and every bit as capable as your child (boy or girl? Who knows?) who do not have these acceptances. Second of all, what kind of high school are we talking about? GPAs vary so much and the top ranked college programs know that a 4.0 at one school—especially one that calls more than the top 1% the top 1%, that makes no sense—is very different than a more rigorous school. Your kid has great choices. Stop making him or her feel bad.[/quote]

Why are you and some of the rest such as--holes. OP is allowed to be disappointed. OP is allowed to vent. [b]These kids kill themselves for 4 years in the hopes that they'll get into dream schools. [/b]Your kids do it too. All kids do it. When that doesn't happen, some roll with it. Some are upset. And there is nothing bad about that. (And yes, parent feelings are valid. We are the ones watching them kill themselves).

If you don't have something constructive to say. If you can't empathize nicely. Then just shut the EF up. I'm sick of the piling on, nasty, judgmental responses to valid feelings on here. [/quote]

This is the problem.  Kids should not be "killing themselves" for something that rarely works out. 
Since this "killing" starts at age 13 in quite a few kids it is at least initially parent driven.  
Parents should know better. 
It's so warped. [/quote]

Agree!  My kids worked hard but they did not “kill themselves.”  Sleep and balance were important to us.[/quote]

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