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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]gosh most of these posters are so mean.  I hear you OP.  DH  also looks like an old man to me----moves soooooo slowly, mostly lives on the couch.  Still going to job most days--but boy do I not look forward to his retirement.  He has no friends, no real hobbies except msnbc watching.  He won't eat much of what I cook, but I still cook and try to eat dinner with him most nights.   I suppose all the posters will call me horrible as well for even noticing these things[/quote]

I don't think you or op is horrible, but the fact remains that men need their women to care for them. You and op may be horrible spouses for letting your men decompose before your eyes and only come into dcum to complain about it. Dh and I both encourage each other and continue to develop shared interests and activities to keep ourselves and each other fit and healthy. It seems you and op have given up on your part of the bargain. I would never throw my hands up and give up on my dh, he needs me. [/quote]

Lucky you that you’ve never tried to motivate someone suffering from depression. You know how I know that? Because if you had to deal with that, you wouldn’t be on here dripping judgment. [/quote]

I've actually suffered several bouts of depression in my lifetime, so I absolutely understand how it affects a person and their loved ones. Turns out, activity like exercise and learning new things keeps me from dipping too low. A nice byproduct of exercise, besides mental health boost, is that my body looks and works wonderfully at 55 yo.[/quote]

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