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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  For those who were wondering, neither DH nor I drink.  However I don't think any of our acquaintances/friends even knows this.  We have not been invited to anything where alcohol would be served.  No one ever invites us to do anything either together or separately.

Neither of us is from this area and we moved here when we got married.  We also have no local family.  We did have college and grad school friends but we both went to different colleges/grad schools that are nowhere near here and our friends all live in different places.  I keep in touch with my college/grad school friends by email or text but only see them at school reunions.  DH does not keep in touch with any college/grad school friends.

As another example, when we got married we eloped and the [b]main reason was that we had no one to invite to our wedding.[b] [/quote]

Umm.  It's you, not them, or DC. I find it very strange that after working in a place for 15 years, your husband has no work friends. I have worked in the same office for 15 years and some of my co-workers are my besties, life-long friends. Also, lots of co-workers whom I regularly go to lunch/coffee with (when in the office).

I am guessing one of you is very judgmental and/or abrasive.  It's not the fact that neither of your drink. I have plenty of friends who don't drink. That's not a quality I use to screen people for whether I want to get to know them. [/quote]

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