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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So basically an older female relative has been shitty toward your daughter for years, and now expects her to be more than civil? And you are stuck in the middle because your need her to take are of one of your parents? My take is this person needs get over themselves. If your DD is saying hi, you need to leave it alone. Note that young people are not dealing with toxic family garbage. Your child's claims are not baseless. Tread very carefully here.[/quote] This is my take as well. Be careful OP. If you keep choosing your other relative over your DD, your DD isn't going to choose you when she has a choice. She's showing you she won't tolerate people who are toxic to her, and choosing toxicity-trying to make her choose it as well when she visits you, is not going to go over well with her in the long run. Especially if you try to force her to "be respectful" to someone who isn't kind or respectful to her. [/quote]
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