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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm an older millennial. I love my kids and plan to fully pay for their undergrad and buy them a car at 18. The buck stops there. No way are they living with me as adults. None of them have special needs. I moved out for college at 18 and only came home for Christmas breaks, lined up a job at graduation (because I chose a sensible major and did internships) and moved into an apartment. I expect the same of my kids and NFW I am going to create a dependent relationship between us after they graduate college. I personally view that as bad parenting, but this is just my opinion, passed down to me from my own parents. I respect that other cultures do it differently. [b]I don't, however, respect adults who feel entitled to live with their parents.[/b] [/quote] Like I said, I didn't [i]want[/i] to live with my parents. It's just that me understanding how important it was to be self-supporting enough. My prospective employers had to value it too, and it didn't seem like most of them die. They didn't seem to understand how the wheel of life was supposed to work.[/quote] There are very, very few jobs of any collar where I grew up, so living at home past the age of ~21 was not an option. I think that was a blessing in disguise![/quote]
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