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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am going to say it...I think it makes the man look like a wimp when he takes the female's name.  There are some things that I think should stay traditional....why?  I am not sure thats how I feel.

FWIW I believe that women should have equal rights...hell I make more than my DH and will always work.  But there are sometimes when you need to let DH have his "balls" back and this classifies as one of them.

I need to be able to look at my DH and see a man...a strong man...not some wimp who took my name willingly.  [/quote]

Well I think your husband making less money is a lot wimpier than if he had taken your last name.

I took my husband's last name, but if I had to choose, I'd choose a provider who took my last name. Not someone who's a man in name only, literally.[/quote]

Seriously bitch?  You must be joking.  Not even worth my time.[/quote]

No, I'm not worth your time. Your time would be better spent focusing on your career, since your husband's obviously not focusing on his.[/quote]

Money does not buy love or happiness.  Its really gross that you rely on your DH to be the breadwinner.  Let me guess you are a SAHM miserable wench whose DH works all day and then fucks another woman on the side.  Sorry that spending his money does not make you happy.  Obviously you make no one happy.  [/quote]

And it's really gross that you think a man looks like a wimp if he takes his wife's last name. You said you believe that because you believe some things should stay traditional.

I say that a man should be the breadwinner in the family- a stance that is traditional- and you go nuts and call me a bitch (not very traditionally ladylike of you) and a miserable wench, and tell me my husband must cheat on me. It's pretty obvious that you're likely insecure about the fact that you'll "always have to work" and earn more money than your husband.

I guess you can express your opinion but no one else can express theirs, huh?  :) [/quote]

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