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[quote=Anonymous]My DD had a similar situation when she was a sophomore  Her tight group of friends fragmented with one being the lead in getting nasty and dividing the group.  Our DD was upset as she had never experienced something like this but just powered through.  We coached her on bigger picture as best we could but teenage years are so tough.

The "nasty" girl came around and our DD learned a valuable lesson. Through it all, she kept her head up even though we could see she was hurting.  It also strengthened friendships with other girls who were suffering the same.  Those girls are now still tight tight going into their junior year of college.  None of them speak to the mean girl anymore.

It's so hard for them to trust at this stage that it will all work out.   But it usually does work itself out....and while it may seem like the end of the world, it's just a very short blip in their lives.    Encourage her to keep her head up, focus on the right priorities and friend(s) and ignore the noise.

..and...This may sound harsh but I have no other way to say it

Don't feed the drama with school changes etc and I'm not saying the drama is on her.  BUT she is NOT a victim and she needs to know that and she needs to find a way to deal with it.  She is going to have similar issues at other schools and in life.  Enable and encourage her to find a path through it all and not just become a "victim".  Life is NOT EASY!   Why continue to pretend that it is?  Let her know this is the first of many tough situations she will face and she is more than capable of getting through it.

She can do this!  And she can rock it despite the challenges....don't let her give in/up.  Life lesson...

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