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[quote=Anonymous]op here thanks to everyone for a lot of good info and suggestions. spoke to a counselor yesterday who's demeanor i was not a huge fan of but have since been recommended to another person's who i will speak to tomorrow.

I think in action to my daily crying bouts i am wondering if many felt totally apathetic to life and your usual desire to socialize, go out, etc...I have zero.

My husbands good friend invited us for NYE, I cannot go. I do not want to be around people celebrating and happy, they deserve it very much but I also know that will be hard for me. 
He really wants me to try and go for. a bit-but I know already its not a good idea.

They are lovely people but very outgoing and outwardly friendly (a great thing btw) but given my mood, I just can't cope with that, or even try to keep up. Is it wrong to tell my husband I simply cannot go? I am urging him to go even for a little bit to have a drink etc...i don't want to hold him back.

Friends of ours insisted to stop by the other day and the minute my mom was brought up, I ran out of the room crying and sobbing. I don't want to repeat that in front of a room with strangers (their other guests). That doesn't seem unreasonable does it?[/quote]

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