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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've known multiple people who married a foreign spouse. It's true that none of them could do any better in America so they found someone abroad. I generally think these people are being [b]taken advantage of by the foreign spouse for the US citizen benefits. [/b]If both were Americans to begin with, they wouldn't be together. [/quote] No they aren't. Their US citizen benefits are part of the package. If they didn't have them, the foreign spouse wouldn't consider them. [/quote] +1. That's like saying I took advantage of my DH when I married him because I wouldn't have married him if he made 50k a year. I wanted kids ASAP, and I was going back to grad school. I was not having kids with someone who could not pay the bills while I was in school. This is marriage. You have to bring something to the table. If citizenship is part of it for these women, more power to them![/quote]
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