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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here - I also find it hard because I grew up in a large house (4000 sq ft) and have always had big family get togethers growing up. However living in a high cost of living area makes it to hard to have a large house.

Dh and I make $500,000 but we have a ton of student loans and have had 3 kids in daycare which cost an arm and a leg. [/quote]

Gosh, we all feel so bad for you.[/quote]

Cry me a river! 700k was not the top of your budget - but it was a wise choice. We make less and also have just completed the years of 2 simultaneous private daycare / preschool bills. Finish your basement into a guest suite already. Also you knew you lived in a high COL area before you had kids and yet you chose to have 3 kids. That’s on you. Please don’t come crying in 10-15 years how you don’t qualify for financial aid and you are jealous that you can’t fully fund college X 3 at private schools. You can’t have 3 kids and still have everything you want - and also live in a high COL area - unless you lower your standards from whatever Instagram vision you had of what you thought a $500k income life looks like. [/quote]

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