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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP wrote: "Fee is waived since DH is in the military." Otherwise, the annual fee is $695.

OP: Your friends probably think that you are paying $695 a year for the AMEX Platinum Card in order to impress others. In reality, it is a meaningful benefit (no annual fee with high rewards) of military service. Your friends are ignorant, shallow, small-minded, and insensitive. If this is the focus--or even a focus-of their thoughts and words, then you might want to consider making new friends.[/quote]

OP here. That's exactly what bothers me. I stopped using the card in person early on when a cashier commented on it being metal, but my debit card had just been stolen and I didn't have a choice. I'm super thrifty and live way under my means, and it hurt that they made assumptions about me.[/quote]

Ok, this just took it to another level. OP. Why would a comment that it’s “metal” — which most credit cards are not — make you stop using it ?  At the worst, someone you encountered once in your life made a random comment that you spiraled into what you imagined— and assumed— someone you’ll likely never see again thinks about you. A random cashier doesn’t know — or care — that you’re “ super thrifty”, and was likely not making any assumptions about how you live or intending to hurt you.  OP, is this a pattern for you beyond issues related to your credit card?  [/quote]

I am not sure why you put metal in quotes. Because yes, when you hand it over, it's a lot heavier, and people notice. Especially if you accidentally drop it on the counter or whatever.[/quote]

I put “metal” in quotes because I was quoting the OP — and contrasting the simplicity of what the cashier said with the OP’s spiraling thoughts about it.  Yes, the metal ones are different. “…which most credit cards are not”. Yes, quoting myself here — to point out that I suggested the differences that you delineated.  Have a lovely day! [/quote]

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