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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you make him invite them?  It doesn't seem like you want them to come.  He should have not called and then you wouldn't be invited there either.

Drop the rope, OP.  Stop trying to engineer a functional family.  You don't have one and the best thing is to accept it.[/quote]

OP here. Because the only options are that they come down here and bring the presents to us or we travel to get the presents. Before we had kids we would travel to my family cross country and then they'd ask and keep asking when we're coming to celebrate Christmas with them. It just never seemed to be an option to not celebrate Christmas. They didn't get that we were only going to celebrate with them every other year.

I do actually want my inlaws to come. I like them. And I wish they'd come see our merry Christmas. It really is festive. [/quote]

But they don't want to come and you can't make them. So work with the situation you have rather than the one you want. [/quote]

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