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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]This is so weird how no one seems to communicate. [/b] What you should do next year is start discussing early on (like in the summer or early fall) and have a direct conversation with your DH and in laws all at once and tell them you won’t be traveling on xyz dates (December 22-26 or whatever days you don’t want to travel) because you want to be at home for Christmas. Then tell them they are welcome to come to spend Christmas w you at your house or if they don’t want to do that then you can come visit them to celebrate w them some other time (a weekend earlier in December?, the week after Christmas/New Years?, early January?) and get those plans set up way in advance.[/quote] I am 21 years into a marriage where almost none of my husband's family directly communicates. We missed my MIL's 80th birthday this way. Now I check in my my SIL (who also married in) to make sure I'm not missing something major.[/quote]
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