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Reply to "He's vacationing with his ex-wife."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think my kids would have appreciated an opportunity to vacation with both parents at age 10. It would have been awful for me (my XH was abusive) so I never considered it.[/quote] That's not the issue though. I'm sure the kids will love it, as I'm sure they'd love if Mom & Dad got back together. OP is asking if YOU would be okay dating a man who did this.[/quote] I’m happily remarried, but I would rather have dated a man who had a friendly relationship with his XW than one that was contentious, so sure. DH and his XW visited 3 colleges with their son, about 6 months after we started dating. I never thought twice about it. Not exactly a vacation, but they were together for most of the day, every day, for six days. They ate meals together and I’m sure had a lot of laughs. It didn’t cross my mind to worry. That was more than a decade ago. I forgot it happened until you asked.[/quote]
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