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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I doubt “vacationing together” is the right phrase.  I’d assume he’s in a hotel while she is staying with family.  He’ll get some skiiing in and maybe catch up on work emails and join them for Christmas Eve and some part of Christmas day, maybe take the kids out to a movie so mom can meet up with college friends, etc.   you don’t know what the kids are going through and it might have been important to them to spend time with both parents at Christmas.  [/quote]

Oh, dear. [i]Sure[/i] he's in a hotel. I'm sure he was invited to join up with family so he could stay in a hotel. :roll: 
I'm not a spring chicken anymore (I have grandkids) so I can't say I'm versed in how couples conduct themselves these days, but let's think logically for a moment, shall we? Would you invite someone to stay with your family if they had to foot the bill for a hotel? What's in it for these kids then? What's in it for him? That implies he's entirely separate from the festivities. Is he doing his own meals? Is he being dropped off at night? Anyone who falls for this was born yesterday.[/quote]

I don’t think you understand with a lot of divorces look like now. If you have grandkids and divorces in your day, look drastically different than they do now. I am PP who is divorced and I can assure you I wasn’t even having sex with a man that I was married to for a decade. We did not have sex for seven years, but I would go on vacation with him to be with the kids only and no one is messing around. We don’t want to miss any moments with our kids because life is too short. We cannot be married. We cannot live in the same house and we cannot share money but we can bear to be together for a week for our kids and no there’s nothing else going on. People really have to start understanding that when people are doing 50-50, custody divorce looks drastically different than divorce is used to look and people have to put all this crap aside and coparent, which is very different than having strict strict boundaries like the past that really is not good for the kids.[/quote]

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