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[quote=Anonymous]OP, First, I'm sorry, this is hard. Second, I'm of the camp that believes your husband can still love his family and children a lot. Yes, there is other stuff going on. He's selfish, obviously. But I actually feel we all are, and sometimes we should and do put ourselves first. I don't think you can ignore it forever, but I do think that you could LIVE with it forever IF you talk about it and come up with a plan. But first - therapy for you to determine what you really want, then negotiate that (probably with a counselor) so that you and your DH are on the same page. This may mean an open marriage. It may mean polyamoury. It may mean no extra-curriculars at all. But you need to talk about it. It's OK not to know what you want yet. [/quote]
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